Relationship certainly has its challenges, but no one can be
compared to the monumental task of overcoming from infidelity, healing from the
pain as well as the hard work that is required to rebuild the trust and
As an infidelity expert in New York City, I have helped countless
clients survive infidelity and even emerge healthier and stronger. Many couples
admitted that the discovery of an affair was one of the darkest and painful moment of their entire
It is much more difficult to earn trust back when it is
broken than to maintain trust in your marriage or relationship. That is why it
is so important to safeguard yourself and your spouse from the devastation and
pain of broken trust. When trust is lost, it can lead to stress, anxiety,
reduced intimacy and potentially the end of the relationship.
Rebuilding lost trust can be a challenge but it is possible
with time, open communication and forgiveness. The help of a counselor may be
required in some cases and can be a valuable resource.
Affairs shatter trust and many seriously contemplate ending
their marriages. However, it is important to understand that, no matter bleak
things might seem, it’s possible to revitalize a marriage wounded by
infidelity. It’s not easy. It is not a quick-fix. Yet, with patience and
guidance, partners in loving relationships can bring their marriages back from
the brink of disaster.Therapy for Infidelity
Many couples that experience infidelity in their relationship
pursue counseling to first consider the options of what to do and next how to
do it in the list stressful way. Therapy can help each partner express their
emotions and needs in a safe space, reveal each partner’s level of commitment
to the relationship, teach the partners relationship skills for repairing trust,
and guide the couple through the process of healing. A psychotherapist helps
clarify the nature of the relationship by encouraging an open evaluation of the
relationship’s strengths and weaknesses as well as providing tools to build
healthy relationship skills. More importantly, the therapist should support the
couples through the emotional pain and guide them in building the trust that is
so needed as a foundation of any relationship.
An affair is one of the biggest betrayal we can experience. But if you are willing to work on the relationship, the journey can be transformative, while both partner change for the better, regardless if you decide to go your separate way after all.
Even the most experienced infidelity psychotherapist
can feel overwhelmed by couples struggling with infidelity. This is why you have to do your due diligence and choose not only qualified and experienced therapist, but you need to choose one that you feel comfortable with and someone you can trust guiding you through the infidelity crisis.
Regardless of the therapy outcome, if you stay together or split up, you will both benefit from counseling become better equipped with relationship and intimate skills. My hope for my clients is for them to learn, grow and improve their level of awareness, with greater capacity for love and intimacy.